Thought I would just update this again as we talked about it here. Ill put it out there that this isn't my field and take everything below with a pinch of salt.
I did some rough (they were rough as the rear beam pivot is at an angle and I have no lift etc) measurements to work out the effect of the lever on the separate spring. For my measurements I took a true coilover as being 1:1 (no lever effect) as the coilover mounts "exactly" where the wheel/axel mounts to the beam.
Disclaimer: I'm only thinking about linear springs. Progressive springs should be the same principle, but harder to work out exact values as it depends how much they are compressed I think.
I worked out that the mechanical advantage on the inboard spring is "1.278". This means that my inboard 7kg (400lbs) spring is the equivalent of 5.5kg (just over 300lbs) spring on a true coilover.
@suj your guess here was almost spot on!
This is likely why I feel my car is pretty safe and not playful enough, especially with my pretty hard front spring (might get a lighter one).
I would need a 10-11kg inboard spring for what I want, to be a bit closer to cup racer but not just as heavy as them.
If anyone has spotted mistakes or knows better than me be sure to correct me!
Now armed with all the info I am going to contact the crowd linked earlier to see if they can make a spring for me
Used this for the conversion from Kg to Lbs:
https://garage.redline360.com/spring-rate-conversion-chart-easily-convert-kgmm-to-lbsin