Look iam very happy to give to what ever charity is decided on by the guys @sevenfourate
Kev - we give as a family each month to a cause close to us - and its clear you already did / do too. Commendable both of us.
My initial reply was to Kevlar (Kev) and i was merely pointing out that i agreed that no-one should feel pressured to feeling they have to join-in, give more than they already do - or give any at all.
110% an individuals choice.
**And i know you'd be the first to sign-up. Big-man. Big heart