I’ve had a look through the wiring diagram and i can’t see a wire dedicated for the rev counter. I might be wrong, but I can only assume it’s done with the CAN BUS system.
I don't know if it will be any help, but when i retro fitted TomTom i picked up a speed signal for it direct from the ESP unit. I got it from the connector for the radio, must be used for the volume increase option, might be worth a try. It’s the thin purple wire on the ISO connector (Pin 1).